darling

gayer-than-youu-are:

insufficientlykinglike:

surprisebitch:

hartspeaches:

larrysrimjob:

know-your-paradoxes:

rilayaloving:

Ok, let’s admit it. The Biggest Forced Hetero Relationship on tv ever had to be Kelsi and Ryan from High school musical.

ALRIGHT KIDDOS IT’S TIME TO LEARN A THING.

Fun fact: Lucas Grabeel (the actor who played Ryan) had specifically asked the director if Ryan could be a gay character. The director (Kenny Ortega) thought that it was a great idea, and they both went to Disney to ask if they could pepper in the fact that Ryan was gay, or include a shot of him with a boy, maybe in the background.

Disney didn’t give the okay on that, so they had to instead force him into a relationship with Kelsi, despite neither Lucas or Kenny wanting him to be a straight character.

In the outtakes from the third movie, Lucas actually grabs Zeke (not sure of the actor’s name, sorry!) and straight up makes out with him, simply to spite Disney. You can find that blooper on DVD versions.

(Keep in mind that Zeke was actually Sharpay’s love interest throughout the trilogy, starting with the after-credits scene of the first movie.)

So yeah. Ryan was actually a homosexual character, but he was forced into a straight relationship through Disney. Thanks, Disney.

HE

SHOULD

HAVE

BEEN

WITH

CHAD

*whispers* I don’t dance

I love that even though Disney didnt give an okay on it, the director and crew members involved still managed to pepper or sneak in something that is gay.. *ahem* Ryan and Chad switching clothes after I Don’t Dance..

there’s really no heterosexual explanation for this!

Ryan and Kelsi were each other’s beards

@erin1355

A high school musical remake would only matter if it made Ryan gay and let him date Chad

ichardsiken: i live for older girls who take care of you and give you advice on weird things w/o...

Sun, 17 Jun 2018 12:34:13 -0400

ichardsiken:

i live for older girls who take care of you and give you advice on weird things w/o judging bc they’ve experienced it and are just so warm. my only goal in life is to be that for others one day

futurakid: avatarmerida: Happy pride month to the tiny cowboy and tiny Trojan man from Night at the...

Wed, 06 Jun 2018 23:41:46 -0400

futurakid:

avatarmerida:

Happy pride month to the tiny cowboy and tiny Trojan man from Night at the Museum

Video

Wed, 06 Jun 2018 23:40:34 -0400

retrowave-heart: fishyfellow: snorlaxatives: the-little-engine-that-couldnt: snorlaxatives: good...

Sun, 03 Jun 2018 23:37:25 -0400

retrowave-heart:

fishyfellow:

snorlaxatives:

the-little-engine-that-couldnt:

snorlaxatives:

good morning cruel world

Don’t you mean goodbye?

no i meant good morning. this world may be cruel but i’m still kickin’

This really cheered me up

2018 vibes

mimibtsghost:Slowly but surely, we got there

Mon, 28 May 2018 23:51:12 -0400

mimibtsghost:

Slowly but surely, we got there

spacemonkeymafia42: plaggnoir: elfwreck: anexperimentallife: oh-my-meoww: suicunesrider: magic-...

Wed, 02 May 2018 18:44:10 -0400

spacemonkeymafia42:

plaggnoir:

elfwreck:

anexperimentallife:

oh-my-meoww:

suicunesrider:

magic-in-a-bottle:

toomanyfandomsforonetobemyurl:

survivor-surviving:

diamondsamura1:

thewonderfulthingaboutfish:

nutriecutie:

cl4yton:

parskis:

i swear to god, men raising their voice is the most terrifying thing in the whole world. they dont understand, like its an immediate panic response, game over

I actually had no idea women found this so scary

my downstairs neighbors fight on a regular basis, and every time he starts yelling i’m a little afraid he’s going to kill her. i have no reason to think this except that he is a man and he is angry

My math teacher has a loud voice and a temper and he scares the living shit out of me almost everyday. He’s made me and other kids cry more than once and he and his teacher buddies make a joke out of terrifying students.

this was women in general? i knew my gf didn’t like it but I was unaware if this affected most women

Yes, it does

As a woman, I had no idea it effected other women like this. I was too afraid to even talk about it. I thought I was weak. Thanks for bringing attention to this.

My dad thinks it’s funny that I used to cry when he raised his voice. I freak out whenever some one does. Once my director did, and I started crying I couldn’t stop. I’m glad to see I’m not alone…

This is so important– seeing how common this is– and I also want you all to know that this is not normal. It isn’t something instinctively ingrained into women, to be afraid of men. There is no natural state of men being a threat that women constantly have to be afraid of. This is cultural. So many women and girls here have a mutual understanding of this feeling, and I think it really shows an unsettling truth about our society, particularly about how men are raised to act and how so many women have this defensive reaction gradually develop. It’s so important that these people have their voices heard, because it teaches us about problems that we just can’t deny the existence of any longer.

I’m glad I’m not the only one

My fellow men, pay attention. I didn’t realize how scary this could be until one of my exes explained it to me, and it’s heartbreaking.

Also, when we move too much during an argument, or lean forward, it’s scary, and I never knew. I was even a little insulted at first, because surely she didn’t think I would hurt her. But see, that doesn’t matter. It wasn’t a sign that she mistrusted me specifically; it’s a conditioned response. (Although if you keep doing it once you realize it scares her, she SHOULDN’T trust you.)

Not every woman has been physically harmed by a man she trusted, but every woman KNOWS a woman who has.

I used to be horrible about this, because I didn’t realize how intimidating it was. I didn’t understand why the woman I was with clammed up or tried to tell me what she thought I wanted to hear, and I only got angrier, and acted even more like an asshole. It was wrong. It was abusive. It didn’t matter if I INTENDED it that way; it was still emotionally abusive. And it was inexcusable.

I get that when passions are high, and when you’re frustrated, it’s a natural tendency to let your voice get louder, to shout and gesture and lean forward. But you can train yourself to do better. You can train yourself to keep more of an even tone, to refrain from large and fast gestures, to not lean into her personal space. I did. I’m not perfect at it yet, but goddamn it, I WILL be.

Don’t tell me it’s too hard, that you just can’t do it, or that you “shouldn’t have to.” I’m 53 years old and just now getting the hang of it, and if this old dog can learn something new, so can you.

Note to guys: It really, REALLY doesn’t matter if you’re thinking, “but I would never…”

History is littered with the bodies of women who believed a man “would never.” This includes women killed by men who honestly, deeply, truly believed they “would never”… right up until she said that one thing or moved in just that way and he just got so mad, just that once, and pushed her or punched her or slashed her or shot her… just once, y’know, to shut her up, or because she was flinching and didn’t she know that HE’S NOT LIKE THAT and I’LL TEACH HER TO BE AFRAID OF ME…

We are trained, from infancy, that Men With Loud Voices are a source of pain from which we cannot escape, and attempts to escape may result in more pain. And as soon as we’re old enough to comprehend a world broader than our immediate circle, a world that extends into the past and will run into the future, we realize that there is no way, no way at all, to tell which men “would never” and which men “would never… except if.”

We live or die on that “if.” And any man who doesn’t like facing that hyper-vigilance can work on fixing OTHER MEN, not women’s fear.

The reaction shouldn’t be “not all men are like that;” it should be “no woman should have to live in fear.”

It’s telling that so many people will hear a story of long-term abuse and say, “why did she stay with him?” and not “why did he treat her like that?”

This made me cry.

Don’t skip over this.

big-boss-official: me at mark zuckerbergs senate hearing: why did you betray andrew garfield. he was...

Sat, 28 Apr 2018 23:49:23 -0400

big-boss-official:

me at mark zuckerbergs senate hearing: why did you betray andrew garfield. he was your only friend he fucking supported you

punkdeaf: punkdeaf: deaf accents are beautiful and its okay to struggle with accepting yourself! u...

Sat, 28 Apr 2018 23:49:08 -0400

punkdeaf:

punkdeaf:

deaf accents are beautiful and its okay to struggle with accepting yourself! u dont need to change for anyone!!

hearing ppl can reblog btw. support deaf ppl!

ouijiwolf: Step over ants. Put worms back in the grass. Rescue baby caterpillars. Release spiders...

Sat, 28 Apr 2018 23:47:38 -0400

ouijiwolf:

Step over ants. Put worms back in the grass. Rescue baby caterpillars. Release spiders back into your garden. Open a window for a bee to fly home. They are all little souls that deserve a life too.

drunktrophywife:ICONIC

Sun, 01 Apr 2018 12:17:17 -0400

drunktrophywife:

ICONIC

goes on twitter

Fri, 30 Mar 2018 21:37:45 -0400

russian-chaos-agent:

bonerfart: my future wife (cradling our newborn baby): isn’t this just the most amazing thing you’ve...

Fri, 30 Mar 2018 21:35:41 -0400

bonerfart:

my future wife (cradling our newborn baby): isn’t this just the most amazing thing you’ve ever seen?

me (thinking about that video i saw where a guy solved rubik’s cubes while also juggling them): uhh it’s definitely up there

bogleech: paladin-of-voretron: stenbroughbilliam: iholtzmann: cumkittenhowell: closet-keys: amaz...

Fri, 30 Mar 2018 21:35:11 -0400

bogleech:

paladin-of-voretron:

stenbroughbilliam:

iholtzmann:

cumkittenhowell:

closet-keys:

amazighprincex:

clarknokent:

juleswatsvn:

juleswatsvn:

If you call pedophilia a kink please unfollow me and never talk to me again

Isn’t it disgusting that 23 people just unfollowed me

Unfollow me too

this goes double if you call paedophilia a disability. unfollow me twice

and if you call pedophilia an “orientation” or in any way compare it to being LGBP+ you can unfollow, delete your blog, and set yourself on fire.

I just lost 50 followers.. bye

clearing out the trash

GO ON AND S M A S H THAT UNFOLLOW BUTTON

BUHBYE U McNASTIES

I’ve seen this circulating forever and genuinely thought “no way do I have any of them following me” until this week when it turned out I had all these fuckin “MAP” (pedophile) followers sad to find out I’m an “anti” (normal person)

Please leave and also please get guinea worm.

darling

queernigga: this solidarity

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